Self Day

[lavender1]

misty mornings..


www.youtube.com/watch?v=cIEAr9PPSrQ&playnext=1&videos=EHBQiXoHAcs&feature=grec_index

friends' list: not as eccentric, but mostly eclectic.

[lavender1]

hey MM, got a september scholar ship or forum too, for late semesters?

[lavender1]

i tried nailing a pudding to the wall, and ended up here:


.... singing though..

www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7BMybP1gro

since reason is so much more than logic.

\!!

[lavender1]

\!!
\!!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=WslezcmDrK4&playnext=1&videos=A4V5W3AKCPQ&feature=grec_index

oh yeah, i can guess who's got a crush on whom.

[lavender1]

childish or senile?

how did perception become a thought?

answer i get:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linguistic_relativity

not angry. angered.

read hot.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=yOxpYZuYzCQ&feature=grec_index

[lavender1]

www.youtube.com/watch?v=sl3G5XFS2-Y

stills

where?

not here?

standstill?

[lavender1]

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anima_and_animus

Ós

Os byþ ordfruma ælere spræce,
wisdomes wraþu ond witena frofur
and eorla gehwam eadnys ond tohiht.

The mouth is the source of all language,
a pillar of wisdom and a comfort to wise men,
a blessing and a joy to every knight.

having a bout with toxic waste, no kidding!


trust is more, and better, than "positive thinking"!!!
................\!!
ex-libris and radiation treatment: unexplainable intuition.


www.ilovephilosophy.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=172557

[lavender1]

www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrj8fbtxatk

to eternity and universe
with all the heartaches they dispense so casually.

what do they care about collaterals?

taking it easy: your well-being. and that cheeky kind of humor.

self-days with an increase in self-congratulation make bitter roots, but showy blossoms.

flow 2 miss world, huh?

[lavender1]

in all likelihood you can compare yesterday's input with today's output
with a possible reversal of programming.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6KBLBpOaJ8

\!!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmmFVqWiZcw

strange choices would have been made, at birth, above and beyond

[lavender1]

Embracing Grief
Grief is Important

Giving ourselves permission to be with sadness actually creates space for us to begin the healing process.

Change is something that happens each and every moment in our lives. Since nothing is constant, it may sometimes seem as if we are losing something whenever things do change. Understanding that this is part of our daily existence and that there will not only be gains but also losses in our lives can help us more readily accept and deal with whatever happens.

Whenever we lose something or somebody we love, it is important for us to take time out for ourselves and truly feel the weight of what we are experiencing. Although it may seem that doing so will push us into a deeper state of sadness, truly giving ourselves permission to be with whatever arises actually creates space for us to begin the healing process. This is because the act of grieving is a natural process, allowing us to sort through the range of emotions that are present in our everyday existence. Even though it may sometimes seem easier to involve ourselves in activities that take our minds off of our sadness, this will only make the route to healing more difficult. Unless we listen to where we are in the moment, the emotions we experience will only grow in intensity, and our feelings will manifest themselves in more powerful and less comfortable ways. Once we consciously acknowledge that these emotions are present, however, we are more able to soothe the sorrow of t!
he moment. In so doing, we become more open to our natural ability to heal ourselves.

Grieving doesn’t have to be a process that keeps us rooted in our thoughts of fear and sadness. For the moment we might feel despondent, but by expressing and coping with our true feelings, we face the sadness head-on. When we allow ourselves to accept and deal with our loss fully, we will then be able to continue our life’s journey with a much more positive and accepting outlook. This will make it easier for us to see that our grief is ephemeral and, just like our moments of happiness, it will also come to pass.

source: daily om

aren't we doing fine?

[lavender1]

www.ilovephilosophy.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=172256


www.youtube.com/watch?v=XK_4Z5DZcNM&feature=related

yup, this is about ability to walk the talk.

[lavender1]

at all hours, wisdom imp(p)lies humility.


www.youtube.com/watch?v=uupzk-YCBO0


reading and understanding >>>>> yin and yang: joy and sorrow?

[lavender1]

image stubbornly refuses to show. alright then ..... ;D
www.youtube.com/user/alexmeanguitar?feature=pyv&ad=5913017102&kw=music&gclid=CP3IzoKV2aMCFdUx3wodwzcF-g#p/u/0/qZd8UNe1nxQ

Softening and Expanding
Being Receptive to What You Want

We go through life with defenses we created early on, are you willing to soften those barriers to allow good things?

In order to get what we want in life, we have to be willing to receive it when it appears, and in order to do that we have to be open. Often we go through life with defenses we developed early on in order to protect ourselves. These defenses act as barriers, walls we needed at one time to feel safe, but that now serve to shut out desired influences, like intimacy or love. So an essential part of being receptive to what we want is to soften these barriers enough to let those things in when they show up. For example, we may spend a lot of time alone as a way to protect ourselves from being hurt by other people, but we can see how this is now preventing us from meeting new friends.

Another obstacle to our receptivity can be our tendency to believe that we have to act aggressively in order to achieve our desired goal. This can cause us to become mono-focused and to fail to see, and be open to, opportunities on the periphery of our vision. So becoming receptive involves a softening of our defenses and a willingness to remain open to possibilities outside our immediate realm of vision. If we are looking for love or friendship, it means first looking within ourselves to see where we are shut down, and second, not getting too fixated on where we might find the love we want. In this way, we become more open as individuals and more expansive in terms of what we see as possible.

Often, the things and people we want to draw into our lives elude us because we are unconsciously blocking them out, either with our defenses, or with tunnel vision that causes us to not see them when they appear. When this is the case, we can take action by exploring and softening our barriers, and expanding our vision to encompass new possibilities. These actions are the essence of receptivity.

source: daily om
bolding mine

virtual multi-talent ....


commemorating a special day: rainstorm18

[lavender1]

You have been banned from this forum.
Until 11/09/2010
For the reason : Screwing around with another admin's handle and account. --Quirk

you can shove a correspondence like this! there must the the right legal channels to deal with a bunch of mischiefs like you.
openly. and fairly.

darn cowards!

I have a scissor, and scissor never dominate me. If I'm egoistic, then I would NOT use any scissor, I will tear a meat apart with my shear strength!. -Scissor (kitchen scissor) is a sophisticated piece of technology that you cannot reproduce at home, you need to buy it.

However, scissor do dominate your muscle. It made your muscle weak by denying it the exercise that you need. -But scissor never intended to dominate the muscle, it was an accident.

handling!

www.ilovephilosophy.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=172604

that's right. no tech lie detector can do anything about that.
with trustworthiness like this .......

[lavender1]

the deal with a commonwheal for the stealth of the commonwealth
playing cricket with the wicket?

imp-pulse wrote:
neti, you should know by now that (not only your) insight demands, not dictates, mature, not young, minds to authorize wisdom over raw power and love above all.

what is stolen property, in concrete terms? leaders doing rabble rousing in exchange for what?
the old establishments investing money where the return ensures that sort of status quo, the state of environmental sustenance can go to hell meanwhile.

where do children belong? in school, not in sweatshops.
what is woman's role, traditionally and in a developing country?

and what the heck is job sharing, nationally and internationally?

i41 am very stubborn in this respect: the greater must serve the lesser, that's the command of wisdom for humility.


what other than what has been programmed into you justifies above ?- like lust, love too is a need, is it necessary everyone gets off with the same playmate ? - money love lust friendship all are the same...needs we have , pick your flavour -

such gods have their feet dabbling anywhere, so one can kiss them?
ban reduced by 4 days now.

how funny, eh?

what has been programmed into me that justifies above?
for sure not such gross deception!
lust, love .... just no (self-)appreciation, only demanding submission by subjection.
how convenient now the frame works are set for another secret victimization publicly vehemently denied.