Self Day

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www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUvg0z2Xg-U&p=EAFB6019D10097AD&playnext=1&index=12

only this, just today.

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communication still is
the key to all learning

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been all ears, all day..

www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VAcoL_RlzM&feature=related

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October 14, 2010
Resourceful Creativity
As you work toward accomplishing your projects today, you may find that you need to be creative to reach your goal. This is because we are all co-creators who need to work with the movement and energy of the universe as we walk our path. Our natural talents sometimes need to be combined with innovative thinking and resourcefulness to navigate our way through the world to our destination. Such challenges help us to learn where our strengths lie and where we will need to ask for help. They encourage us to look around and make the best use of all that is available. By getting in touch with your inner resources, you will be able to utilize your connection to the universe and its inspiration to help you. Today by opening yourself up to new possibilities, you can creatively accomplish all that you set out to do.

Life can feel like a game in which we decide our path and then the world throws obstacles in our way. But we learn and grow from the challenges and find that there is a higher purpose for everything we’ve gone through. Because of the twists and turns along our paths, we learn to be innovative and resourceful, and therefore we learn as we earn our way forward. Today by embracing the game of life, you can use your resources creatively in combination with your natural talents, and do so with enthusiasm as you work toward the creation of your goals.

source: daily om

yes, rebekah!

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... It is not what happens in this life that counts, but the way you handle it. I have always found that when you start working your way through whatever problems you have, things may not turn out the way you want them to, but when you are able to get past them and look back objectively, you can see where it was for the best.

look back objectively, but your head was made to look forward while your subjective elbows got out of control, imho.

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eiskinder
anyone familiar with this term?

www.neon.de/kat/sehen/gesellschaft/222142.html

oh, you can tell me that's none of my business. in any other wordsl.

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\!!
trusted color
close but not a trespass

www.youtube.com/watch?v=WXZIVFAFt1I&feature=related

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[lavender1]

"He drew a circle that shut me out --
Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.
But love and I had the wit to win:
We drew a circle that took him in."

---Edwin Markham


in his image and likeness. which no one can escape anymore.
case closed. and lost.

their pain is our pain. it's good in the plural.

Thanks guys, Love the huggs Smiley

And yes... I have felt as strongly as you ** with all his crap hahaha... BUT!! as much as it drove and drives me crazy some times, I feel well I know its not my problem sooo its not me lol, and it is all him... I love him, he loves me... If I dont try to help him, steer in him the right directions who will?Huh? cause no sane person would take him in, put up with the crap or help him.. Some one has to stop somewhere along the line and help him. In saying that, if and when it gets us to fight and argue to a point, I have no hesitation to call time out have no communication till their comes a balance of some kind. Hence fixing me back up emotionally, re-energize. Because I come first. lol Smiley

Thanking you ** and Lavernder orchid you both have helped me..

Love and Light
xx

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in the wide-wide open space of love-controlled gentleness, there's a lost-and-found department ....

Please, please trust me on this one: A therapist will not laugh at you. He/she will empathize with the feelings that you are going through, and will do so not just by listening to you, but by "hearing" you, as well. --In a context of acceptance, empathy, and understanding....

I'm sure of that.

client or patient dead: easy learning, imho

it need not be termed ideological: one shrug may be one too many.
but then, it wasn't the first, nor will it be the last.

therapy, imho, is not addressing the causes but gladly exploiting the symptoms showing in a client / patient: compromising the individual for the continuation of the system that is causing most of the symptoms.

the survival of the system costs much more than its members' lives.

[lavender1]

www.rinpoche.com/quotes/quote75.htm



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[MagnetMan]

Today
I feel myself
in waiting
for an Old Selfish Age
to die
and for a breath of fresh air
to sweep the pollution
away

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you can borrow and there
are those who pay back

you can choose a song there
from those playing better

www.youtube.com/watch?v=-g6OlsENbRk&p=7D125A043A1DE864&playnext=1&index=27

you can know the two pictures
of great spirit today

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www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrZWIGH3bGw
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;D

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nur zur Info - ich sperr Dich jetzt!

WARUM?

Nun, das weißt Du selber am Besten.

Du greifst die Leute an, liest und verstehst absichtlich falsch, fühlst Dich in Deiner Paranoia mit allem was man schreibt nur bestätigt, nimmst keine Hilfe an und jammerst seit einigen Beiträgen nur noch rum, dass sowieso die ganze Welt böse ist zu Dir.

Bitteschön, wenn Du es so haben willst, kannst Du es so haben.

Jeder schafft seine Realität selber und Du machst Dir Deine auch selbst!

Jetzt gerade machst Du die Welt böse und lässt nichts Anderes mehr zu. Sogar Daikini, die es wirklich lieb und gut meint, stößt Du vor den Kopf.

LASS es. So jemanden brauchen wir hier nicht.

Ich hatte Dich gewarnt. Du hast es provoziert. Wenn ich jetzt die Böse bin, bitte, dann bin ich es. Aber gefallen lass ich mir das nicht mehr.

Geh woanders hin und zieh da Deine Masche durch.

Danke.

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as trustworthy as it would seem.

"it's place is your place.."

November 1, 2010

Admiration and Appreciation
Virgo Daily Horoscope

You could find yourself admiring others for their accomplishments today. This could lead you to compliment friends and strangers alike. Natural competitiveness may be part of our evolutionary heritage, which may make us less likely to offer flattery. But if we can only succeed by keeping others down, we hardly deserve anything we get. We are truly evolved when we give a gift of respect and kindness by showing our appreciation to those we admire. By acknowledging that everyone has their own unique gifts to give the world, we know there is no threat to our sucess or survival. When we can be confident within ourselves, we can share the gift of confidence with others. Then we become an example of a world in which everyone supports each other so that we all may reach our highest potentials as individuals and as a race. By simply showing your admiration and appreciation of others today, you uplift us all.

When we remember that like attracts like, we can feel good about ourselves when we realize we are surrounded by those we admire. Giving a compliment is a way of sharing our positive energy. We know how good we feel when receive a compliment, so we can understand the boost it gives. By expressing our appreciation, we support their efforts and encourage them to continue. Today you can help make your life and your world a better place for all of us by displaying self-confidence and support.

two-way radio just not always functionable. three is a crowd.

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tilopa
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sacked by the darkness eventually creating itself.

no more tears
numb


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interesting: the pic withdraws its own showing

www.keithdowman.net/mahamudra/tilopa.htm

nobody is perfect, accepted norm: justice factually on autopilot (random creation) with creators of, but not by, illusions

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November 2, 2010

Making Time for Reflection
Going on Retreat

Putting our trust in the retreat process will make space and dedication for the necessary work we have to do.

Giving ourselves time to reflect and heal can be a powerful way to process the things that are happening in our lives, and one of the best approaches to do this is by going on a retreat. Going on a retreat means that we have set the intention to heal and learn more about our spirit, and doing this is a decision that we make for ourselves.

Since everyone sees and experiences the world differently, it is important to choose a type of retreat that works best for us. Even though a friend or loved one may recommend something, we have to trust our intuition and select a path that really connects with what our soul needs most at the time. The most essential thing is to be willing to respect our unique stage of development and to be patient with ourselves since any thoughts or issues that arise are simply part of the process of healing. Just remembering that a retreat is an intense period of time where serious soul searching takes place can help us allow whatever may happen to us to fully unfold. Going on retreat may sound like a vacation, but most retreat experiences ask you to look deep inside of yourself, and sometimes this can be uncomfortable or stir the pot of our soul.

Putting our trust in the retreat process will make space for the necessary work we have to do, making it easier for our hearts and minds to explore wholly the innermost reaches of our soul. By paying attention to these messages, we pave the way for greater healing and transformation, since spending time in contemplation at a retreat will give us the gift of insight and understanding that we can use in all aspects of our daily lives.

source: daily om

yes, i can actually see that.