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Mar 4, 2008 21:02:37 GMT -5
Post by Trivium515 on Mar 4, 2008 21:02:37 GMT -5
I think Callmeharley summed up what I was gonna say really well. Ditto. It's a lose lose all the way round. Though I agree with SoulAtom that the solution is in preventing the painful situation from happening in the first place, with a long courtship before any serious steps are taken.
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piper
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Mar 7, 2008 20:41:33 GMT -5
Post by piper on Mar 7, 2008 20:41:33 GMT -5
People don't marry anymore with the idea of children in mind. It seems like it is a career minded or convenience minded thing. So the courtship is materialistic and that is an ever shifting position. That rarely seems to work because the desires of one start to surpass the other.
The children of divorce are becomming the norm and as they try to start families from the negatives they have experienced maybe we will have a return to the responsibility for children that our grandparents and earlier had. Maybe we will have a backlash .
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nickelfire
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slighted and scorned
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Mar 11, 2008 0:32:38 GMT -5
Post by nickelfire on Mar 11, 2008 0:32:38 GMT -5
I'm in total agreement with Harley. Living with parents who could hardly live with each other myself, made it hard to respect and love either. My world was confined between arguments and I felt torn in two. They held it together long enough on behalf of my and my siblings’ balanced upbringing. But since their split, it certainly has been easier to appreciate both. I no longer stare deploringly at the negative in them, and therefore in myself, and can finally fully see and embrace the positive. But one is still split if one loves both, together or apart you’re still split. So it may be that divorce can at least end the verbal violence of constant argument if nothing else... And maybe that's not so bad... But what do I know... right now, I can't see me ever having kids.
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Aug 21, 2009 21:20:00 GMT -5
Post by lavender1 on Aug 21, 2009 21:20:00 GMT -5
pity, so many blow it....
pity so many have it blown one way or any other. do you know what disappointment is? can you replace anything, like the promise, "i will restore you to the place from where i evicted you." does your home school include those?
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Sept 22, 2009 14:19:10 GMT -5
Post by lavender1 on Sept 22, 2009 14:19:10 GMT -5
"we're just friends..." courting much nothingness and fear of commitment anyway
imho
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Sept 22, 2009 15:37:41 GMT -5
Post by MagnetMan on Sept 22, 2009 15:37:41 GMT -5
We are still evolving and live in an Age of puppy love fully committed adult love for mate and offspring await the Age of the Sun
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Sept 22, 2009 22:29:21 GMT -5
Post by lavender1 on Sept 22, 2009 22:29:21 GMT -5
no mercy until then.. bonjour tristesse.. in sun city?
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Nov 13, 2009 8:07:55 GMT -5
Post by lavender1 on Nov 13, 2009 8:07:55 GMT -5
We are still evolving and live in an Age of puppy love fully committed adult love for mate and offspring await the Age of the Sun until then we prepare and practice friendship: recognizing purpose and intent, mission and pathways of a person as well as the value of a human"kind" in truly divine order. still evolving in a lot of cruelties?
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Jun 30, 2010 10:58:38 GMT -5
Post by lavender1 on Jun 30, 2010 10:58:38 GMT -5
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Feb 8, 2011 18:27:14 GMT -5
Post by lavender1 on Feb 8, 2011 18:27:14 GMT -5
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